Back in October 2020, I was speaking at a men’s conference in Orlando, FL.  Across the hall, there was a women’s conference held simultaneous. This video, I call “The Healing Power of Dominance”, was the talk I gave those ladies. It was definitely a bit out of my comfort zone but I wanted to send [...]

I ask myself often this past year, why did I get my life unstuck a number of years ago? Where did the impetus come from? The drive? The deep-seated feeling that something was terribly wrong and needed to be corrected? I was telling a few men in my church small group recently that God knew [...]

Family Christmas cartoon specials have been a regular yearly treat for my family. I grew up in the 60’s and 70’s to help give you some perspective. Last night, we ran thru the trifecta of Frosty the Snowman, Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer, and Santa Claus is Coming to Town. The Santa Claus version was [...]

Men Are Watching

I was on a zoom call with some friends the other night.  We were talking about the “why” we do what we do. Why we work on improving ourselves.  Why we work to improve our marriages and our families. In a world that values hedonism and mediocrity, why even bother? Because there’s something more to [...]

The Mission

It has taken me many years to even realize I needed a mission.  I had made my kids my mission, my job my mission, my wife my mission: all leading to an ever increasing level of dissatisfaction. I just slogged thru life, moving from one weekend to the next, one paycheck to the next, hoping [...]

The Shifting Sands of 2021

Welcome to 2021. We are fully into it now. It’s been a while since I was last moved to send an email. I, along with many of you, found 2020 to be a year of challenges. For many of us, we leveled up in a several ways. We learned how to work from home. We [...]

A Questionable Life

I ask you now: are you leading a questionable life? You ponder the idea and try to decide where I am headed with this. Am I asking you about moral failings, committed sins, wrongs inflicted on others? As you start to feel somewhat persecuted, a sweat appears on your forehead, a pressure builds in your [...]

She Deserves Your Dominance

Women have been lied to about so much of what it means to be a woman.  They’ve been raised with a false ideology of mandatory equality of both sexes. “We want to be just like men,” they say. That is simply not possible. Let me ask you, which man do you want to be like?  [...]

Christianity and the Dom/sub Life

The Dom/sub lifestyle is often very misunderstood.  When I gave a talk recently, one of the questions I had after was how did I reconcile being a Christian and being a Dom to my sub wife. I paused for a brief second.  As I had mentioned in my talk, my wife and I are monogamous.  [...]

Beans and Leaves

Humans are creatures of habit it’s said.  We tend to love our daily rituals.   They allow us some continuity. We normally rise as the same time each day.  I suppose that’s hard wired genetically.   The older we get, the earlier we rise. I think that has a lot to do with the older we get, [...]