In the era of social media, we all have more friends than ever. But do we? I have a ton of casual, semi-anonymous folks I
One of the good things about our kids being grown and gone is our privacy. At any given time, one or both of us is
How about we bite off a topic for the ages? No problem. Hopefully I can amuse myself a bit. I often hear men saying things
I was talking to my curveysub this afternoon and we were comparing notes on things happening in our lives, as we try to do at
Not all of us can live in a true Dominant/submissive relationship. It takes one helluva lot of effort from both husband and wife. Some folks
One of the things I read about with most couples that get into a Dominant/submissive relationship, especially if they go 24/7, are the establishment of
A huge part of life is simply “suiting up and showing up”. Too many Men out there fail to even put forth the most basic
Ho Ho Ho! It’s that most wonderful time of year. Time for the Christmas turkey, sweet potatoes, dressing, wine, more wine and even more wine.
We initiated our D/s protocols a few years ago. Or I should say, we started living our true selves. The results have overall been spectacular.
One of the most amazing things I’ve noticed about Curvey and I getting our act together a few years ago, happiness bleeds over into so
I keep hearing and reading that men are toxic. And it seems the most particularly virulent strain are white men. This narrative has grown increasingly
I believe in God. Let’s get that out of the way. I’m not big on attending church these days but that’s another story.
In Sickness and in Health We’ve heard those words a million times. In fact, when we talk D/s contracts, many of us fall back to
There was a man one time that was told he had a torn bicep tendon in his shoulder, one of two such tendon attachment points,
When I mention anything to do with Gorean lifestyle, people will always ask me questions. Some have heard of the Gorean slave positions but I
BDSM, huh? Bondage, discipline, Sadism, Masochism, Dominant, submissive. Master, slave, Daddy, little girl, etc. If someone was to ask me, “What is BDSM?” I
There is a point in every in every journey where you’ve gone beyond the Point of No Return. (Except that time we were driving to
What is it with everyone forcing labels on others and to an extent themselves? Living an authentic life, one where you are just doing you,
This has been the subject lately in circles I find myself. Curvey and I are in our 50’s. We managed to avoid the dreaded Gray
Let’s face it. Men can excel at preventative maintenance with their machines (cars, motorcycles, boats) but often fall woefully short many times when it comes
A deeper connection with someone. It’s why we go out on dates, move in together, marry, have children perhaps. And yet while we are all
I was mentoring a young man recently. He was in the middle of a LTR break up; one he had initiated. He spoke