No Turning Back

There is a point in every in every journey where you’ve gone beyond the Point of No Return. (Except that time we were driving to Colorado and we forgot curvey’s clothes!)

In this case, I’m speaking about marriage and LTR’s.  And the “back” is how we used to be.  For some, going back would revisit having great sex, trips to the beach, eating lunch in a little hole in the wall laughing at each other’s silliness while downing tequila… the fondly remembered Good Times.

Yet the current Bad Times are so freaking bad you simply can’t breathe any longer.  One person is trying while the other is just apathetic. Or both are too lazy, waiting for the other to pull the plug.  There is only one way out and you both are relieved when finally one brings up divorce.  No turning back. Can’t get there.

But if that same couple manages to break free of the Bad Times, change the way they treat each other, truly overcome, then we’re back into the Good Times again.  I’m not talking normal ebbs and flows that all unions experience.  Those are day to day or week to week.

But in those short term ebbs, you look at each other and know, there’s no going back to the Bad Times.  We both refuse to live like that ever again.  Therefore, you both realize you have to put a bit more effort in.  We won’t be miserable again, we simply won’t be together.

I believe that makes us both try harder. We’ve worked too damn hard to get here.  We deserve the lives we made.

3 comments

    1. You are welcome. Timing is everything in life.

      D/s is like the Hotel California. We can check out any time we want but we can never leave. Once we both got a taste of how good life with each other *can* be, we refuse to settle for mediocrity any longer.

      Best wishes to you and your Sir.

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  1. Dear Sir,
    I had to STOP and comments …If we forgot my clothes today, it would not matter ! I cherish our growth together on this Magical DsMARRIED Life! I have always loved you, from this day forward I am in LOVE with you my Dom, Master,Warrior and Husband. I will follow in high-heels and continue to be the best me/your submissive I can be.

    4Ever,
    CurveyCat^^

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